Today, as I was sitting and checking my emails, a text came through that instantly pulled at my heartstrings. It was from a dear rodeo mom—a friend who holds a special place in my life—sharing a picture taken this fall. It was a snapshot of our daughters: mine, in her signature red hat, and hers, sitting on her horse in the chute.

This picture speaks volumes. It’s more than just a moment frozen in time; it’s a story of teamwork, perseverance, and the true spirit of being champion-minded. As I looked at it, tears began to well up in my eyes—not from sadness, but from pride. That’s my girl, mentoring her friend through the gate for her very first run at her first-ever rodeo.

A Lesson in Mentorship

It was the opening weekend of our rodeo season. My daughter, Soph, was battling her own nerves after a rough go with Cruiser, her horse, who had been acting up. Yet, despite her own struggles, she turned her attention to someone else who needed support.

She saw this young lady, equally nervous and filled with the anxiety that comes before stepping into the arena for the first time, and decided to step up. Soph became the calm in her storm, offering encouragement, guidance, and, most importantly, a reassuring presence.

This is what being a champion is truly about—not just competing for titles but lifting others as you rise.

The Pressure of the Alleyway

If you’re a teen rider, you know exactly what it feels like as you approach that alleyway. The adrenaline is rushing, the stakes are high, and the weight of your plan for that 15-second run is heavy. Add to that the flurry of advice from every well-meaning person around you. Does it help? Probably not.

But then there’s that person. The one who gets it. The one who can cut through the chaos with just a few words of encouragement. They remind you to breathe, stay focused, and believe in yourself. In that moment, it’s not about winning; it’s about finding your center, knowing that someone has your back.

That’s what my daughter did for a friend in need and it has always been reciprocal from this young lady.

Building a Circle of Support

Finding people who genuinely want to see you succeed is rare. They’re the ones who offer encouragement without judgment, patience with your unique process, and the kind of support that comes from a place of love and belief in your potential.

This idea of a small, tight-knit circle is something I’ve come to appreciate deeply. The truest champions in life often aren’t the ones standing on podiums—they’re the ones standing beside you, cheering you on when you doubt yourself.

As I scroll through social media, I often reflect on the motivational quotes and messages about teamwork and friendship. Some resonate deeply, reminding me of the value of having even just one person in your corner. Whether it’s a coach, a mentor, or a friend, these people see your potential even when you can’t.

Being champion-minded isn’t just about achieving success; it’s about embracing failure as a stepping stone and lifting others along the way.

A Message to Parents

Parents, how incredible is it to witness your child surrounded by a circle of friends who truly care about their well-being? It’s a gift to know that they have someone in their life who can step in with a simple, “I got you.”

As parents, we strive to provide words of encouragement and guidance, but sometimes, what our kids need most is the assurance that no matter what, we’re in their corner. We can learn from this too, surrounding ourselves with those who uplift us and remind us that we’ve got this.

I’m endlessly grateful to that rodeo mom for capturing this beautiful moment and sharing it with me. It’s a reminder of the importance of building each other up, staying grounded in kindness, and always choosing to lead with a champion mindset.

To All the Teen Riders

If you’re reading this, know that the journey is worth it. The nerves, the pressure, the setbacks—they’re all part of the process. Surround yourself with those who bring out the best in you, who calm your fears, and who remind you of your strength.

And remember, whether it’s a parent, a mentor, or a fellow rider, having someone by your side who says, “I got you,” can make all the difference.

Thank you, rodeo mom, for this picture and this reminder. It’s a testament to the power of mentorship, the strength of friendship, and the beauty of being champion-minded.

We’ve got you.